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Ladyboy Confessions: What Customers Don't Understand About Bar Workers in Pattaya

My Thai Wife Season 2 Episode 23

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Behind Pattaya’s flashing neon lies a world most men only dream about. In this raw and unfiltered episode, Ellie, Pim, and Koi take you deeper — past the smiles, past the small talk, and straight into the bedroom secrets of Thailand’s most intoxicating nightlife.

They don’t just talk about the hustle. They confess the things that really happen when lust collides with business — the hands that wander too quickly, the men who fall in love too easily, and the delicate game of turning desire into money.

Pim reveals how she makes men believe they’re the only one, pulling them into the dangerous sweetness of the girlfriend experience. Koi explains the power of leaving a man aching, obsessed, desperate for another night. And Ellie shares what it feels like to be wanted, judged, adored, and used — sometimes all at once.

It’s not just sex. It’s survival. It’s seduction. It’s the art of keeping men under your spell while never losing yourself.

If you’ve ever wondered what really happens when the lights go down and the drinks keep flowing, this is the unfiltered truth — told by the women who live it every night.

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Speaker 2:

hello everyone and welcome back to my thai wife podcast. I'm mike and again we are doing it in the fox 3 studio in pattaya, in teprasit, so I will leave the link below, because some of you ask where is that and how they can reach them. So I will leave, like, the link to their own website and you can contact them if you need any help from them. They are very professional and I want to thank them again. We have many guests today. It's kind of crazy. It will be fun. So we have Ellie again. Hi guys.

Speaker 1:

You okay, ellie.

Speaker 2:

Yes, you're doing good. She's a bit sleepy, I think, but we will make her wake up with funny stories.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, you dig me out from my rotten stage.

Speaker 2:

That is your regular state and we have Pim again. Pim is back. How are you doing Pim?

Speaker 4:

I'm doing good. Hello everyone, I'm back baby.

Speaker 2:

Yes, she's back, and of course, we got beautiful Koi here.

Speaker 5:

Hello, see you again, guys. Thank you for coming back here again. Tonight we will have a really fun lesson that we get to enjoy all of us, of course.

Speaker 3:

As always.

Speaker 5:

Really exciting and looking forward.

Speaker 2:

Hopefully I get a good experience, good job last time, and I'm sure that people love you. Don't worry about it.

Speaker 5:

That's why I come back again.

Speaker 2:

He always sweet and handsome to me, oh there is one word, guys, I want to teach you. In thai it's called poly. Okay, it may make bullshit if someone say like this to you, when you are looking like me, you have to say wait a minute, sir wait a minute.

Speaker 5:

Look at my date yeah how spicy you look amazing.

Speaker 3:

I'm just saying, I'm not looking that good I even wear the same shirt from last time yeah, but you still look yummy you said that we haven't talked about sex enough.

Speaker 5:

Oh yes, I really been looking for it, and this time you give that to me.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, what do you want to talk about? You can start. You want to talk your own experience. You know what? There is something similar here. Wait, wait, wait. So we have two ladyboys. Both of them work in bars Actually the same bar.

Speaker 3:

Yeah, ladyboys, both of them work in vows. Actually the same ball. Yeah, yeah, both of them work in 69 ball.

Speaker 5:

Yeah yeah, and of course, if I started with that, it's 69. That's my favorite yeah this time she come over she see me.

Speaker 3:

oh, come on, she's so fast Alright, so we have to join.

Speaker 2:

But I want like Ellie here. She never worked about right. She was working as a manager, she was working as many other jobs there, but she never worked as a bar girl Wow, that sounds amazing.

Speaker 5:

That means, you can get more experience.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, I'm ready for it. I'm waiting to shoot a lot of questions.

Speaker 3:

We're looking for it. I can't wait now.

Speaker 2:

I want to know first, both of you work in many bars. In your opinion right now and you don't have to say your own bar, I will even say, don't say 69. So except of 69, which is the best ladyboy bar right now in Badr, actually?

Speaker 5:

So except of 69, which is the best ladyboy bar right now in Badai. Actually, for me, if I win, I went to the Fook bar.

Speaker 2:

Okay, yeah, sorry Bokhaw, yeah, sorry Bokhaw, and after that I went to the warm-up bar.

Speaker 5:

It's more beautiful ladyboy there either. She also used to work there for a while.

Speaker 2:

Yeah.

Speaker 4:

I'm proud that I worked there for a while. Yeah, I'm probably worked there for a little while, like just a few days. So then I moved because I I feel like my friend came to work in the 69 bar before, but I'm just follow them to work there. So that's, that's one. That time we just had like party birthday from from PatD. Yes, yeah, so we meet each other that time.

Speaker 4:

Oh yeah, you saw me yeah it's like I'm back to work you know, as you said, you're back baby yeah it's like that and I did not see I did not meet her when I coming work having that, and I did not see I did not meet her when I'm coming where I'm having work there. Yeah, because it's not the same days or yeah, it's like that, but that night is the first time we met each other. But he doesn't talk each other, because that that's, this is so fun, nice, yeah, it's very funny.

Speaker 5:

I mean dancing, we like, we like you had the show also outside. Oh sure, yeah, okay, that's really perfect. You know, that's I really love. And of course I'm dancing like, oh my god, what's wrong with her? She has look beauty, but uh, exactly, look what she's crazy. Or what, what different, something like that. You just want people to think you're crazy.

Speaker 5:

You're not that crazy, no I see you speak to me again. So you say, in your opinion, warm up out and uh is the best one right now. Uh, so actually for me I in the guam I go for a few times, but uh, on the way I back from the food bar, okay, because of course there is near tea town and there's really good area to get a customer it's one of the best areas, yes, and oh my god, it's so spicy there. Every girl is perfect.

Speaker 2:

My issue with pork bar is that it's the ladies are really pushing for drinks all the time. This is my experience. I go there sometimes, but not as much as other bars. Just because of that, I'm feeling always very pressured to buy drink.

Speaker 5:

So I have already been part. No, no, no, no, too many times to go drink there, but I saw all the girls there is beautiful yeah they have a lot of beautiful ladies. Yes, and it's almost my fame, my country there, but I don't. I come this time. I don't go inside there yet. Just walk past. I'm sorry for that. Maybe you can shoot me tonight there. I didn't mind.

Speaker 1:

She's coming hot. She's coming hot. She actually said to what she wants.

Speaker 5:

My sweetie. I want to interesting stuff.

Speaker 2:

I think, it's the dress. The dress gave her superpowers, yeah. I'm too hard, I can't wait, oh god and Kim what, in your opinion right now, are the best like two of the best Ladyboy bars, except of 69?

Speaker 4:

so in my opinion, I thought for me I see, see how, from people that have been there in the regular tourists coming to Adi, they're delirious but it's a mess. A lot of people they are like to it's a good environment.

Speaker 3:

Yeah, yeah for other reasons.

Speaker 5:

Yeah, thank you it's good service either yeah, yeah, I used to be a regular over there.

Speaker 4:

I am. I'm service that before.

Speaker 1:

I might. I might see her before too. Yeah, I meet you there yeah, I meet her with our friend Mark.

Speaker 2:

You know Mark from Soberbox, yeah.

Speaker 4:

Probably.

Speaker 3:

He's one of the owner's friends. Yeah, I remember. So you said the latest and number two.

Speaker 4:

Number two for me is In my opinion. That's why, but so you said the latest and number two. Number two for me is this in my opinion, this is um. Come on, tim hold on.

Speaker 3:

Who do you have time to see?

Speaker 4:

yeah, I see, like um GG, okay, so I, I doesn't, I doesn't think that is. Maybe that's correct, for other people say that it's a kind of there are not many customers.

Speaker 3:

The bar is very well-lived, yeah yeah.

Speaker 2:

By the way, we had a guest from there, so Femi used to walk there she's not walking there anymore and she said there are 30 ladyboys over there. Wow, 30 ladyboys and four ladies. It's actually a mixed bar, which would surprise me.

Speaker 4:

Yeah, and that's what makes me think that is this maybe like people would like to work there also and they have a lot of tourists being sick during. It's going to be a good bar and that is like quite big. That's why I thought like yeah, I agree.

Speaker 3:

Have you been to Gigi?

Speaker 1:

No, I don't think so.

Speaker 2:

We need to take you there. I want you to see because the setup in the bar is amazing. It's a huge bar. Where is it Also? Saichia Bon, yep, saichia Bon.

Speaker 1:

This is very surprisingly, like I never go there.

Speaker 2:

So it's a very big bar. It's two units and they made very open space, so there are not many tables over there, but it's very like open and have a lot of lighting, so it's a nice place so like more than the problem with that that all the fucking 30 ladyboys standing in the front scaring all the customers.

Speaker 5:

This is the problem really yeah, like you can walk past them from yeah, oh, I think I saw, but I never been there, so I but both oh.

Speaker 2:

I think I saw, but I've never been there, so I'm back If you turn late, yeah yeah yeah, can.

Speaker 5:

I follow both of you.

Speaker 3:

I wouldn't be there either.

Speaker 1:

Let's go have fun.

Speaker 2:

I think I'm going to be late night, Ellie in your opinion? Not ladyboy bars, because you're not a ladyboy. What is your opinion for the two best bars in Pattaya that you enjoy, except of the bar that you used to work? For best bars in Pattaya that you enjoy, except of the bar that you used to?

Speaker 1:

work for Okay At the moment right now I don't really have one.

Speaker 2:

You don't have any favorite bars.

Speaker 1:

Can say like I lost how to say same like a food I lost appetite, since I have, since I stopped working for the bar. Okay, so right now I don't for the bar. Okay, so right now I don't have the bar that I like, my favorite anymore.

Speaker 2:

You prefer, like maybe going to a coffee shop or something, or just a relaxed place.

Speaker 1:

Oh no, Not that either. I like to be rotten and house Okay.

Speaker 3:

That's what you like me.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, so tell me that now, no more for a week or a month, maybe, instead of a. But back before I worked in the bar, I think I like to go to the Spot which is where, which is in Soi 6. Soi 6 also, as I told you in the past episode, I have one girl that I like to go see, yeah, and another one back then. The second one will be what name is hollywood on the on the front?

Speaker 1:

okay, hollywood also in six yeah, hollywood, inside six on the front because they have the pool table oh yeah, you can't because many bars and so six don't have the pool table but they start just that first time.

Speaker 4:

I never know that you don't know many bars don't have. I mean it's like I'm not really been in the soy six. Yeah, is there one there?

Speaker 1:

Hollywood not new, but they start to have a new one, like I think so I think the one next to the nimfo also have the pool table and also now they have so many new, new bars that they just put the put here, yeah because I think they understand that right now.

Speaker 2:

It's not what Soy6 used to be.

Speaker 5:

Soy6 used to be many ladies, three years you never been there. Yeah, because it's popular.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, but it's not. I don't like soy sticks. I don't eat that many times. I don't enjoy the environment there. It's too hassle, heavy and also, as Michelle said one time, you cannot walk the street without hundreds of people grabbing you and trying to pull you in?

Speaker 5:

yeah, I see.

Speaker 2:

I don't like it. Like if I want to go somewhere I will go because I want, not because someone pulled me and I understand it works on some people it works it works to me too it works to me too

Speaker 4:

yeah, it works to me too. That's what I gotta say. Like they cannot. They cannot shoot to do something like try to get customer easy.

Speaker 2:

So that is like the way easy, I will explain what Michel said one time. Michel, everyone, he's a big, strong guy. He was walking so six. He had appointment there in one of the bars and he was walking past one bar I don't know which one, and four or five girls hold him. He's a strong guy, but four or five girls hold him. He's a strong guy, but four or five girls hold him.

Speaker 5:

He cannot move. Excuse me If I be there. I never let him go either.

Speaker 2:

You actually have personal issue with Michel, not issue.

Speaker 5:

You know, michel, you used to work with Michel. I do. We have some good listen before.

Speaker 2:

So you used to do movies with him, right? How many movies have you done with him?

Speaker 5:

Only one, only one movie. Yes, as good talk. There Are you interesting guy? Yeah, michel.

Speaker 2:

Michel is Michel and he like to be top sometimes and whatever.

Speaker 5:

Oh yeah, because who watch me there? You never disappoint.

Speaker 2:

So you've done movies with him and this is how you know him. But you know he's a strong guy. If five girls hold him and he cannot move, this means they hold him yeah.

Speaker 5:

Okay, I can't complain about this.

Speaker 3:

He looks delicious, I'm sorry. No, it's good.

Speaker 2:

Michelle is a handsome guy we can all agree with that. Maybe Michelle watch this. Of course she can watch that. Yeah, she can watch every episode yes, so okay, welcome me again so and you only walked about like this with Michelle, or you walked with other people here without naming them, because I know everyone but we cannot name them I have, but not a movie, just a new picture.

Speaker 2:

Oh yeah, photo shoot with sunya and uh you cannot say the name, I will have to cut the word. Yeah, uh, yeah, I know everyone, but you cannot say the name. I'm sorry. Yeah, so you just did movie like a photo shoot and only did a movie with Michelle?

Speaker 5:

Yes, okay, and yeah, I can't forget about that time.

Speaker 2:

It's a really good time, I can cut it out. But, bim, you want to talk about your experience in that field. For what do you, what do you mean About movies? Movie, I can cut it out. Wait, wait, wait, I can cut it out if you want later.

Speaker 4:

Oh, it's all right for me. You want to talk about it, yeah?

Speaker 2:

Okay, so she also did some movies, guys. Yeah, she's thirsty. I think this subject may make her nervous.

Speaker 4:

Yep, because I'm going to say I'm doing a solo video.

Speaker 2:

Solo video. You cannot say who you worked for. Yeah.

Speaker 4:

Solo video means just you doing whatever you want for yourself Exactly, yeah, so I just do that for two times, and so I do it as like the first. I do it before I surgery.

Speaker 3:

Okay.

Speaker 4:

So before you had boobs, yeah, and for second, second, it's just like like one year yeah, one year after. Okay, so then you got skinny also already yeah before you were chubby yeah, before chubby, but now for the last time it felt like slim, better, more, okay, and that is like around one year, like one year anniversary for me to do that.

Speaker 2:

Okay, Would you do that again? I'm not being honest Solo, I mean in general would you do porn again?

Speaker 4:

Probably I'm not really interested to do about that.

Speaker 5:

Okay, yes, but she means she didn't say no, she did yes, probably.

Speaker 4:

Maybe you don't have the right manner.

Speaker 1:

The right manner.

Speaker 4:

say no but you know, like um, I actually know what's going on next, but I'm feeling like I'm through solo.

Speaker 2:

Is this privacy and feeling comfortable more than having a scene with some other guy or other lady boy in the scene. Uh, I mean, you feel more comfortable doing it alone and not yeah, yeah fucking you or you fucking him, yeah that's what, that's what I mean and that's what I thought like.

Speaker 4:

That's what I prefer to do solo much better, more than like many people. But some people would like to do so. That's why they are can make, like um, a porn video.

Speaker 2:

It's like a yeah, I know some girls that doing that a lot and that's okay.

Speaker 4:

I respect that because they can do that as a work and they are doing based and make good money so. I respect people doing that, but I think I would try, but maybe not my style what's your opinion on that?

Speaker 2:

this one? Would you consider ever doing something like that, or it's not your cup of tea?

Speaker 1:

No, not my cup of tea. First, like as I told you, every time I don't like to see the pussy, even my own pussy, you know. So, like I never, like I have a friend that do the, that do the OFL, okay, okay, at the Bangkok, in Bangkok, right, she do it. Oh, before COVID, I think you know, and she do it very well, she try to like yes she try to like Ellie, you should like joy.

Speaker 1:

You know it's like it's not like a porn, it's just you take picture and like be sexy, like extra sexy, but then I just like that's mean when I eat it I have to see. You know what I mean.

Speaker 2:

So it's like nah, not my thing, not my time, yeah, you know, but I was speaking with few of my friends, including michelle. I know many people that work in that industry. I mean producer, porn stars, whatever and all of them told me that right now, because it's the worst blow season ever in Pattaya right now, many of the ladies are calling them all the time I want to make a movie because they need the money. I know for a fact that one of my friends he gets like 10 calls every day.

Speaker 4:

That's a lot.

Speaker 2:

Can we make a movie, and if he refuses, they get angry with him.

Speaker 5:

Yeah, so maybe Happy one on there.

Speaker 2:

I think, you know all the guys. Okay, you know all of the guys you're talking about.

Speaker 5:

Yeah, yeah, yeah. Now it's just really hard to find money and a job. People try hard, People work hard Because salary never down the money we more pay for electric cable.

Speaker 3:

For everything. Yeah, everything is really difficult.

Speaker 2:

I I bet it's a very bad low season, yes, yes, streets are not empty, but there are not many customers. There are not many people go even for drinks like and I. I really hope this high season will be better. I don't know yet, but again, I always for the war with Cambodia to finish, we all because it's effective.

Speaker 5:

It's effective. I wish that all of you guys be patient, everything that son will be shy soon.

Speaker 2:

Just be patient, I like me, I'm patient, not them you need. You guys need to be patient because you are losing money right now and you need to stay strong. I know many people that say fuck it and went back to live in their own house.

Speaker 5:

Oh yeah, but not only me, because a lot of people here. They are upset, but they don't say that they are sad or anything.

Speaker 3:

I will say something not nice.

Speaker 2:

now, okay, both of you. I know you. You are very popular with the guys. It's very easy for you to find customers. I know you. Wait, wait, wait, wait. Let me finish. Okay, because you have the right attitude or the right look or whatever. But for some girls that don't have the right attitude or don't look good, as you two, it's very difficult. Now, like you, have to really stand out in order to get customers. Now, this wife we all know, nong Mo, for example. She was supposed to come here, but she will probably come next time. She's a hardcore lady. She grabs customers out of the street easy. She has many customers every day. It's very easy for her because she has the right attitude and the right look. Yeah, but not everyone has that.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, I agree.

Speaker 2:

You've been walking about for a long time.

Speaker 1:

You saw the ladies that work for you yeah, it's like, even like you have to look but you don't have the energy of like, of like attacking like try to get the customer, then it doesn't work. I have many of the girls under like under my care, who work in my bar, right that I try so hard like okay, this is my friend, he's looking for someone tonight. Just take care of him. You know, like he went to sit down and take a drink, yeah.

Speaker 1:

And then, like he's very easy, like this is the most easy customer you ever can get, she still ruined it.

Speaker 2:

I can ask why you think she would?

Speaker 1:

because she wasn't, she wasn't talking, she on her phone until I have to go like, give me your phone. She speak right yeah, and also like don't take care of the drink of the customer. Like the customer finished the drink for like ages ago. You don't even ask him if he wants to? No, yeah, she just sit there like a doll.

Speaker 5:

Yeah, you know, right, like the glass is empty, she walk like yeah, she walks like yeah, so I sit there, so you're like, that's not like.

Speaker 4:

We understand.

Speaker 2:

No, I understand that, but I think it's also this question, this not. I don't know really how important is that when you are sitting with the customer, to be over-sexualized with him, to try to make him horny all the time, or it's more.

Speaker 4:

it's not that important as long that you have good connection and good talk with him so in my opinion, when I'm I'm a customer, I'm gonna say I'm not a kind of lady really like to make them horny or or do as like they're not gonna say like naughty things, like a dirty, not gonna say like naughty thing, like a touch body. For me, when I'm with a customer and he give me a drink, so we start conversation and we like still doing nice conversation and maybe like something interesting, yes, okay.

Speaker 2:

And you think it's like this is your style about the conversation with the customer? Yeah, yeah, it's very comfortable for you.

Speaker 4:

Yeah comfortable and most of the customer they say to me they're feeling comfortable to sit and talk with me more than If someone talks to you.

Speaker 5:

Yeah, yeah, for me and her it's not a fun thing, because I think it's. This is my opinion, you're also not very grubby. You're not trying to make a pony all the time and not an apical or something like that.

Speaker 4:

Like not being lewd Like we do sometimes. So just like entertain, yeah, like give them happiness or something like that.

Speaker 5:

Yeah, not that rude.

Speaker 4:

Okay.

Speaker 2:

Because if I compare you guys to, for example again, I talked with her non-mock yeah, no more, is very aggressive. She will start immediately but grabbing the cock or pulling her cock out or whatever, just to make sure the customer is interested in the sexual way. So she don't want the drink as much as she wants the show time or the long time. I think this is her aim. She say like okay, I need to get the customer in the bank as quickly as possible, yeah, yeah yeah, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 5:

This is my opinion, I think, as her, I looking for short time, I don't looking for a lady drink, so, but I don't trust anything for customer. I, I, I, I confident that I, I, I a nice service because I know how to speak to make him interesting in me.

Speaker 2:

Okay, you didn't have to show up. You don't have to be interested sexually, just interested you as a person.

Speaker 5:

Yeah, yeah yeah, Just say oh god, you want to join my big one. You want to do that Because we have the opinion to show out.

Speaker 2:

Oh, so you do play on the sexual way but not too much, I do not too much.

Speaker 5:

Yeah, then easily it's not included Like it's not interesting.

Speaker 4:

It's difficult.

Speaker 5:

Ah, come on, yeah, come on, but you don't give exactly what I want, something like, so you keep them hungry. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I know, but I don't mean like I take out or show this is me, but yeah, I can get hard and say trust me, I feel like that because it's my duty Come on the other guy.

Speaker 2:

Last time we were in the birthday party I was sitting with one guy I will not say his name, so I was sitting there with one of my friends and all the ladyboys in that bar took turns on sucking his cock, ask him. And even you. Even you. Now you pretend to be oh, I'm a shy girl here this is my cock.

Speaker 3:

You're hurting your cock, you're touching his throat.

Speaker 2:

You're trying to suck him off. What are you talking about?

Speaker 4:

I'm going to say something that night. I'm really feeling freaky I that night I'm really feeling freaky out, like what is going on here with a guy.

Speaker 3:

You cannot say his name. I don't know him. He's one of my friends. I got to know him.

Speaker 4:

I see, but I don't know his name, and I'm feeling like Lady Otterway, like have fun with him and doing like Took two yeah.

Speaker 1:

Oh my God, I'm not there today. I will not explain, oh my God, why I'm not there today.

Speaker 2:

I will not explain, I will not tell his name, but think that Michelle looks small next to him. Yeah, yeah, he's much taller and much stronger than Michelle. Michelle looks skinny next to him. Sorry, michelle, but that's the truth.

Speaker 5:

That's all the bad. You can't enjoy him. I say yeah, but I do. But I just say I don't mean that I'm really boring girl, she's not interesting. I make him interesting, of course, hopefully. Maybe he have me in his mind, hopefully.

Speaker 4:

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 5:

So, you didn't have to open all you have maybe.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, yeah, but I saw some girls just straight away start sucking his cock right in the bus. I see, I see, see, of course you see. You can tell me also, yeah.

Speaker 1:

I have to like add on that too because, like sometimes, like Michael, doing some some up like two, two sexual on set, which is for me I feel like it's not really looking well because, like some, because some of the girls, they're quite new and shy so like maybe the customer, other customers see and then expect the same thing.

Speaker 2:

You know yeah I agree with that. Yeah, I think there is big difference and you can correct me if I'm wrong. It's okay, but in my opinion there is a big difference between lady but lady boy bars yes, lady boy. So this is something we discussed before. Most of the people that are interested in ladyboys, it's a fetish. For them, fetish is also already sexualized okay when they go to the girls girl bar.

Speaker 2:

No, it's just like oh, I see a hot girl, I want to fuck her. So it's not only fetish, it's also like I want the whole experience. I think that ladyboy bands have to be a bit more sexual than the regular bar girls.

Speaker 3:

Their look is already sexual enough.

Speaker 2:

You're right.

Speaker 3:

You're absolutely right.

Speaker 2:

They are dressed more sexual. They are trying to show more. You often see ladyboys just showing her boobs and cover them, which girls normally not do.

Speaker 1:

Ah, okay, okay.

Speaker 2:

Like it's very normal, but I understand where it's coming from. But I think I agree with you that when you have many girls and some of them, you will not feel comfortable to do stuff in the bar with the customer. Yeah, it's a bad thing that some girls do and some others don't because, as you said, the customer will expect. But I think it's also as one of you said uh, you said it before you have to keep him interested if you show him everything immediately and do everything immediately he's not capable?

Speaker 5:

yeah, yeah, that that's that. That's a, that's a man. Yeah, because interested in something difficult. It's too easy, men are boring, but I have no opinion that all recent girls do something, show you anything. Maybe they're confident by the thing they do, so enjoy it because it's them's duty, so I didn't mind. Yeah, but people they believe by themselves. Do this database for me. People, they shoot for themselves already. So for me, that are people, have experience, people understanding, people respecting. But people how to react? Okay, yes, but for me I respect anyone. Do what you easy with, I easy with you. I stand behind you here, yeah.

Speaker 2:

It's weird. It's so weird. I know it's right to make a joke, but I understand what you mean. You mean about creating a real connection with the person.

Speaker 2:

I get that. I can read you through the jokes, don't worry. But the connection is important. But okay, I will not say names. I will just give you examples that I saw a few days ago. I hope I cannot say names. So I was sitting in a bar, a ladyboy bar, and there was one lady boy that I know there. I know there that she was sitting with the customer for about three hours, three hours. He buy drink. They are talking, having fun, buy drink, but she's a bit reserved, she's not touching him, she's not kissing him, not try also. And then another ladyboy came and she just came to him because the other ladyboy was in the toilet for a minute, just grabbed his cock for one second and then when she come back he say to the first lady okay, I go with her, I take her.

Speaker 5:

Yes, I mean, maybe interesting some reason like that.

Speaker 2:

But she spent three hours with this guy wasting her time because the other lady boy just come grab his cock and he immediately want to take her show time.

Speaker 5:

And what's he look like. That's more important.

Speaker 1:

I think that's important too.

Speaker 2:

I will say that both of them look kind of similar. Oh really, yeah, there is no big difference.

Speaker 5:

Maybe that guy he like naughty girl he like, oh, come on, bad bitch.

Speaker 1:

Maybe from the talking conversation he already like heat up a little bit until the last grab.

Speaker 2:

Maybe he waiting for that moment from the first girl. I will tell you another part of this story that I know that some of the customers really try to like. Or they start asking hey, do you smoke drugs? Do you do this? Do you do this Because the customer want the lady to do with them. Alright, and the first lady was not interested in doing drugs.

Speaker 5:

The second one is yeah, Of course he should. The second yeah, yes. And if you ask me about this lesson, of course drug always follow drug, but the girl, the girl, that's mouth, by the way, yeah, but if the first girl she make naughty or make he interesting, make him horny, yeah, like of course he spent three hours.

Speaker 2:

You don't think he's interested already?

Speaker 5:

I do so with and everything. Well, I will come boom, the last one, the big one, or touching me, kissing me, and I do this, do that if you so. So you do it in progress, yes, step by step.

Speaker 5:

You didn't have to pull on immediately. Some reason they don't really hurry up. They need friends to talk to. Oh, many yeah, yeah, yeah, they need to enjoy the time, relax. I walk so far to come and have drink here. Some back competition, who you are, whatever, we get to talk for each other, but for me, the bioman, I was sure the girl would come to talk and go because man, it's exciting in that reason. Man would take immediately because if we long man would die Okay, but look similar.

Speaker 2:

I think no, it was interesting and I know the first lady boy was really upset. She stole her customer or whatever they fixed it up. Eventually it doesn't matter because they are friends. But I understand that customers want different things. But I think there needs to be a balance. As you said before, there has to be a progression that you can start with conversation, which is I know this is your speciality, right, because I know one of your customers that really likes you and you always say, like you are really good at giving the girlfriend experience. Yeah, so this is your speciality, the girlfriend experience? No, no, it's okay. It's good to say Everyone needs to know what they are good about. So you, girlfriend experience?

Speaker 4:

no, no, it's okay, it's good to say everyone needs to know what they are good about.

Speaker 2:

So you can really give like the feeling of oh, I'm with you and you know I'm same as your girlfriend. Yeah, you're not a lying to him. It's still like a money-based relationship, but you are giving the full experience. Yeah, and comparing you to other people, they are like okay, I'm here to suck your cock the best way I can, or let let you fuck me, or I fuck you, or whatever, it doesn't matter. So it's very different. I think there needs to be balance in the middle between those two approaches.

Speaker 1:

You think also. Yeah, I think also Because I have a broad type of girl who like the girl who like immediately touching the customer cock and the girl who like can talk and play game with the customer for over three hours as the first girl and the second girl in your example, yeah, but I think it's like for me it has to be in the balancing, like you can talk for three hours but maybe you have to end with some point, you know.

Speaker 2:

As she said, like with a bomb.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, you have to drop the bomb at some point. This is my own experience with this thing.

Speaker 5:

You know like. She said, like yeah, yeah, yeah, I don't have to drop the bomb at some point. This is my own experience with the, the, the the by this thing, the cart, if you do quickly touch shows. So everything not special one time only. If I, if the thing I do, my customer 90% almost come second time because that's make the, the reason and the family a good story for us, instead of making them need each other. That's why. So you create the whole scene for that. I make it for future purposes.

Speaker 2:

Okay, no, no, that's smart. I understand that. So you leave a taste for more. You're not showing everything or giving everything in the first time. Maybe even in the bed. I'm just asking, maybe even in the bed.

Speaker 5:

in the first time you're not doing everything you make sure he wants to meet you again, yeah yeah, that's why people always say the same thing the customer all allow come to visit lady or lady boy. Why so hurry up? Why quickly up? This is a man, this is a duty. Quickly go, quickly. Come. He interesting you next time. He think about you and he contact you again. You are business you run. So if you stay there, enjoy, share my story. Maybe I need you to be my good friend. Not not about sex. Fine, another one sex.

Speaker 5:

See quickly go, quickly come Interesting.

Speaker 1:

This is very clear example I feel like the best friend.

Speaker 2:

Thank you all, thank you, but I do think there is a customer for every kind of lady. So some customers yeah, you're right, but some customers this're right, yeah, but some customers this. Why, for example, have such loyal customers? Because she gives the full experience and the whole story and everything? No, no, that's good. I'm not trying to to make you feel shy about that, because I know so many of your customers. I know so many of your customers, right.

Speaker 2:

Some of them are even my friends yeah and I know like her customers are falling in love with her a girlfriend, so like a girlfriend experience yeah and that's your strength and I. I don't think that if you do with those guys specifically because you target them I know how you target them also, but I don't think if you do what koi say with those guys, it will work. I think they will just say oh, she's another girl. In fact, they will not feel like a special connection.

Speaker 4:

You can be.

Speaker 2:

I agree, you can be.

Speaker 4:

For me. I'm not really good like girlfriend, like girl, girlfriend experience with them. But you know what I'm, maybe I'm a person like easygoing. Anyway, you're asking me to enjoy it. I can't. Yeah, I like her. I like her. This is so nice customer, I mean for fishing. Of course I can't be there, I can't mission with them this. All right, they are me to go to the car, um, how to say that? Like arcade, the doll, oh, okay.

Speaker 4:

I can't do it with him if he need to do it with me you say it's not the girlfriend experience, but it is.

Speaker 2:

You're spending quality time with them.

Speaker 4:

Yeah, yeah, it's just in my opinion I don't think I'm doing it as like a girlfriend experience, but how you think they see it. Yeah, that's how you think they see it.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, that's that's what they see it, because, yeah, I feel like a customer more like a feeling like already in the relationship, you know and the team would be like a hot date, like okay, we just we have to figure it out about each other.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, yeah, but it will not be like uh, it will not be like a meaningful date and because the the most important thing will be the afterword in the bed, which with with pimp, it will not be like a meaningful date, because the the most important thing will be the afterword in the bed, yes, which. With Pim it will be the opposite the bed will be the bonus, but the whole date and the whole experience will be the next day the next course.

Speaker 4:

Yeah, that's like um, um, I'm really. I'm not really interested to do on-bay all the time. Maybe time or something like that. What do you mean?

Speaker 5:

sorry, I mean it's like it's just boring.

Speaker 4:

I'm not really like to have that many time. Oh okay, it's like I want. I want to save my myself okay, I don't need it to be like. I don't like it, she lazy.

Speaker 2:

If she lazy, what do you mean? You need like 5 times, 10 times a day.

Speaker 3:

I'm sorry, probably I'm lazy.

Speaker 4:

Sometimes I'm feeling like man, hold on, yeah, cause. Like yeah, I'm spending All day with them, I'm spending All evening with them, but like Really tired and they're like For at night, this is what. And then like for at night, and then they get horny. It's like that's what they are looking for. That is really what they're looking for.

Speaker 5:

I really understand her Well. Sometimes it's uncomfortable to do that thing, Of course.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, Of course you're human. It doesn't matter if someone fails no. Because people no, no, people forget sometimes that the working girls or ladyboys are people. They think it's just a job. You know, sometimes you can be tired, sometimes you feel not good, sometimes if it's a girl, she have period or whatever, and it's okay. But some people forget and they focus not all of this but about the sex only true yes.

Speaker 5:

So yeah, sometimes I didn't agree, but I have to that reason come later. Yeah, but yes, but whatever.

Speaker 2:

I know one girl. I know her for many years, so she don't like to fuck, she hate to fuck and she's walking in the bars. She hate that, she hate that.

Speaker 5:

Hate, fucking Okay, but she needs to make money.

Speaker 2:

So she became the best blowjob in Patel.

Speaker 1:

Everyone knows that. Oh, unless you make something to cover the abdomen.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, but she does not let anyone fuck her. But blowjob, she would be number one.

Speaker 1:

Oh.

Speaker 2:

So everyone can find the middle in that.

Speaker 4:

Can I call her?

Speaker 2:

You need a blowjob, you mean this, or you want to teach her?

Speaker 4:

I need to teach her oh okay okay.

Speaker 5:

I say master.

Speaker 3:

I want to know her now, so yeah, I'm having that what do you mean?

Speaker 2:

okay, 10 more minutes and then we cut. So maybe that is help more to. Yeah, like you say what they mean okay, 10 more minutes and then we cut.

Speaker 4:

So maybe that is help more to. Yeah, like you say, easy going and things like that about easy coming and going yeah.

Speaker 2:

So yeah, easy coming and easy going yeah easy coming with you okay yeah, yeah, so about that, yeah, but you know ladyboy, is he coming with you?

Speaker 4:

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.

Speaker 5:

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, dinner, do whatever with us, yes, but I never saw that. It was really tight, ladyboy, have to look at hair, then face, then look everything.

Speaker 2:

Another thing that people forget Ladyboy don't have pussy. She cannot come all the time. She cannot get out all the time. No, it's also a thing. Yes, it's different Sometimes. You just had sex one hour ago. Maybe you cannot get hard again. Yeah, Exactly.

Speaker 5:

That's why I try to explain. Like when you go with customer, you go one time already After 30 minutes you get luck. You go one more time. You not get hard. You know what a customer say oh, you don't like me, yeah.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, yeah, yeah, they say that, they say yeah they say that, but if you go with a man and he don't get hot, you will think the same oh, maybe he's not. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, he's not a man, he's not a man.

Speaker 3:

Yeah, it's true, it's true, so you understand.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, I understand.

Speaker 4:

I understand. Now I gotta say like it's just maybe like stop to complain ladyboy from that thing. That's mean like they don't like you guy or they are. They are do like take hormone a lot and they're not good heart. Maybe it's not about hormones at all.

Speaker 2:

Not even talking about the hormones.

Speaker 4:

Sometimes maybe it's about like they work so hard and they can't heart in the moment, that time when they were with you.

Speaker 5:

So I want to be like a respect us that's why every time my customers are by competition with us, by team, like what was that? Yeah, sorry, sorry, so, uh, they are you talk, but um, yeah, or anything they check. They check for every time sometimes too much. I say okay, not, okay, not big enough, not look like photo, not pay, simple, yeah, so come Really yeah just join me.

Speaker 2:

This is someone you met online, right? So you're telling me, if I don't look like the photo, or my cock not as big as in the picture, you don't have to pay me. Yes, simple.

Speaker 5:

Fair. Yes, yes, I don't mind.

Speaker 4:

So I gotta say, like we never mind how you look, like how you are.

Speaker 3:

Worth Only the money.

Speaker 4:

Or money. Yes, of course we have the price.

Speaker 5:

Yeah, you say to me Sometimes too much. Yeah, okay, picture like this. Not enough, open this, open like this, do it this. You know More and more and more and eventually they not even know. Yeah, the last manner I say if I don't good enough, no, pay single.

Speaker 4:

So I'm going to say, like we never complain you, whatever who you are, we welcome you guys.

Speaker 5:

Yes, we always want to provide you good service. That's my duty. Go on.

Speaker 4:

And I think, like how lady working at the bar being like that also, they never complain about customer. Come to the bar, everyone working, so we are welcome and ready for service, you guys. So if you're going to complain something as like from how look like, or something that you're not accept, that is what you like. Maybe that is too much.

Speaker 3:

Here comes the big problem.

Speaker 5:

That means we don't blame the customer.

Speaker 2:

We always welcome them and the customer, and not all of them, but some of the customers and those are the guys normally that not many people like them. They come here with their own fantasy in their head. In their own fantasy they think I pay for a product. I not pay for a person, I not pay for her time. I pay for a product. They don't see and this is something that I'm very against and I try to always talk against it the walking girls, the walking ladyboys, the freelancers, whatever, even the mama-son of the cashier. They are people.

Speaker 1:

They are people.

Speaker 2:

They are human, they are not products. You have to treat them the way you want someone to treat you or your friends, or your mother or your sister or whatever. It doesn't mean you don't have to be, you have to be shy of them. No, you can play, you can be, but respectfully it's important.

Speaker 5:

Not only customer ladyboy either. Sometimes she don't want to do that, but she's a liar. I really understand customer really well. Sometimes customer says she can do, but when the time comes she cannot. I really understand the feeling from customers.

Speaker 2:

I understand, but it's rare Normally, I think the new generation and I'm not talking about the new generation of customers, I'm talking about the new generation of working girls and ladies. They are much more open. They are much more explaining, I think because also the language improved. But they know the world is much more open for these things. So right now they say, okay, listen, guys, I can talk or I cannot get help because I get hormones or whatever. They are very open about it.

Speaker 4:

We open more. Yeah, yeah, yeah, a lot from the before.

Speaker 5:

There are many questions more about that. They really care their time and their money. I think money is not too important. I think their time, yes, honey, yes, that's more important. There are many things already, honey. That's why I say sometimes I'm upset that lady boy lied to customer either.

Speaker 3:

Not the customer yeah, yeah, yeah, you were fair. You were fair, I didn't really care.

Speaker 1:

When my lady lied to the customer, I also very angry too.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, I want to say that unfortunately, we have to catch up today.

Speaker 1:

Yeah.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, but I really think we have a very good setup today.

Speaker 4:

Really, really I have so much fun.

Speaker 1:

I'm actually very sleepy. I have so much fun. I need to bring your guy back. I think we are going to do this four of us setup again soon. We will set up and it will be great I'm back.

Speaker 2:

I'll see you soon I think we are going to do this four of us set up again. Soon we will set up and it will be great. I'm looking forward. I'm sure it will be a great episode. And first of all, pim, anything you want to say to our listeners that missed you and haven't seen you for a while.

Speaker 4:

I'm kidding. You guys say that's your comment here. Yeah, so thank you so much to the listener and everyone who's watching this video. From from the first of our recording from us and until now, I'm really, I'm really happy to be here again and you're always part of the my Day White family.

Speaker 2:

Come on, and I'm very proud of you and you're always part of the my Day White family.

Speaker 4:

Come on and I'm very proud of you, mike, you're a good guy, you are. Hold this and then like. For now, this is a lot of listener, a lot of followers on YouTube and, yes, I not forget it everyone. If you want to talk with us or comment, yeah, you guys can write comment on the video here, put like here and yeah, we got to answer you guys.

Speaker 2:

Okay, thank you, vim Koi.

Speaker 5:

Anything you want to say to our so for me this is my second time and if you guys are funny with all of us and want to have a good reason and joy for all of me, then subscribe and follow him. We're really agree to come back to all of you guys, so I'm looking for it. I hope you all happy for watching us yeah, yeah, thank you very much from her Ellie the tired Ellie the creepy, ellie, I'm sorry.

Speaker 1:

Okay, okay, like, yeah, so that's been very, very good and then I'm very enjoying, like talking with the spicy and the sweetest, and then I hope, like then I hope you guys really happy and enjoy us together and then I hope I can invite them back again. Just let me know, okay, okay and then I hope.

Speaker 2:

I can invite them back again, just let me know. Okay, okay, and again, as always, thank you guys for the support that you are showing us. If you can like, subscribe Patreon, check it out. It's really helpful for us. And again I want to thank Box3 Studio for having us. And that's it, guys. See you next time.

Speaker 3:

Bye-bye, Bye-bye. Too hot us and that's it guys.

Speaker 5:

see you next time bye, bye, bye, bye, bye.