My Thai Wife
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My Thai Wife
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Moving from the sizzle of the stove to the flicker of the screen, Mike and I dissect the shared burden of subscription fees and the magnetic pull of HBO’s narrative genius, covering the epic sweep of "Game of Thrones" to the street-hewn authenticity of "The Sopranos" and "The Wire." The conversation wasn’t all escapism, though; we got real about the oft-hidden struggles within the LGBTQ+ community, offering a sobering blend of myth-busting and advocacy for steadfast health and safety practices.
The heart of this episode beats with the powerful story of a woman's experience living with HIV, laying bare the collision between medical breakthroughs and the harsh landscape of societal judgment. Her narrative threads through the fabric of our discussion about the forefront of HIV treatment and the persistent shield needed against all STIs. Shifting gears, I open the doors to my own history working in Pattaya's ladyboy bars, unveiling the resilient spirit pulsating through Thailand's nightlife. We recount tales from the front lines of these establishments, spotlighting the spectrum of customer interactions and the metamorphosis of culture within these vibrant venues, ensuring this episode is replete with candid insights and unexpected twists.
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Hello everyone, welcome back to our podcast. My Thai wife, I am Lata, and I am here with Mike Mike hello, how are you? Thank you. How are you doing?
Speaker 2:Very good. I actually. I have something interesting to tell you. This time I watched something on Netflix. I want to know if you've seen this show or not. It's called. It's a movie. It's named Hunger. You see, this Hunger is about this Thai movie.
Speaker 1:Yeah, yeah, yeah, I know it's about like a chef. It's about a Thai chef and all sorts. I didn't know what this is yet, but I know like it's very famous in Thailand.
Speaker 2:It's very good. I think it's very interesting If also people are interested in being a chef or about restaurants and stuff like this. It's very, very good. I really enjoy watching it.
Speaker 1:Before I used to have Netflix, but because it's like one account and then they can use like five people, right? Yes, then it's me, my brother, my two sisters and another friend. But it's all in me to pay In the end of the month, it's all in me to pay. So I just cut everything out, like okay, then I delete the Netflix, then I go to HBO.
Speaker 2:You just have HBO, so what?
Speaker 1:Yeah, I heard everyone like to watch a movie, but they don't want me to pay for the money. But, man, you know, it's like I always pay alone and everyone's just keeping. Did you pay yet? Did you pay yet? I need to watch this movie. Did you pay yet Because, yeah, my husband in this movie. I can't wait to see the next episode. But nobody helped me to pay. So I just oh, I already delete, and then everyone angry.
Speaker 2:If you have time and have someone with Netflix, I really think you will enjoy to watch this movie, Angel. So what are you watching on HBO? What shows do you like?
Speaker 1:On HBO. I have many movies, but one thing about the highlights about HBO is the Game of Thrones. I keep watching, like I think, two times already.
Speaker 2:You watch all the series two times already.
Speaker 1:Yes, who's?
Speaker 2:your favorite character.
Speaker 1:I watch from season first until season eight, already finished, but now I start to watching again.
Speaker 2:I also it's really good show. I watch that also many times. Who is your favorite?
Speaker 1:character there. Oh, I have so, many, many, many, but the most one that I like is Arya and. Daenerys.
Speaker 2:Arya and Daenerys.
Speaker 1:The most like it talks about the beautiful and powerful woman I just love Daenerys, but it talks about like a little girl and try to fight things with many things in her life. Same me, I just like Arya.
Speaker 2:Yeah, she's very strong character For me. I like Tyrion number one. You know Tyrion, you know Tyrion.
Speaker 1:He's very clever.
Speaker 2:Yeah, he's very smart. He's very smart and he can manipulate everyone and he has hard life also, you know.
Speaker 1:But he loves sex, same you maybe.
Speaker 2:I don't know, maybe this why I like him. I don't know.
Speaker 1:He loves sex and drinks. I don't drink so much.
Speaker 2:He loves sex and drinks a lot, but I think he's an interesting character also. Have you seen? Have you seen the Wire on HBO or Sopranos?
Speaker 1:No, I just watching about this one. I'm just only some movie. But for the series I'm still looking about next one. Some people say it's like utopia. It's good.
Speaker 2:Euphoria yeah, it's very good. Euphoria is, yeah, euphoria Many times. You know it was an Israeli show. They sell it to HBO. The show originally is Israeli. Oh, that's cool. Yeah, but I really think you will enjoy a series named Sopranos If you haven't seen it before. It's about the Italian mafia in America. Mmm, it's very interesting because maybe it's gonna be really cool If you, if you want, I think you will enjoy that. Or the wire also. The wire is about the drug war in America In a city named Baltimore. Very interesting also. It's about the blacks and the police and everything going between them.
Speaker 1:Maybe I don't like it because in my country have so many corruption from the police on the drug, for my fear. I hate this thing.
Speaker 2:Yes, but maybe this will be interesting for you to see that it's not only in your country, it's everywhere in the world.
Speaker 1:I Just want to kick them ass.
Speaker 2:It's not easy, easy. Yeah, I have a question for you. We talked about yes subject many things many times, but I think we haven't covered anything, everything yet. So I want I still have some question about ladyboys before we move on to other subjects. Okay, Okay. I want to know our diseases common with ladyboys, like many say. Many I hear many people say, oh, be careful with ladyboys, maybe they get sick, maybe you get a JV or the stuff like this, this tool, or you think it's regular with everyone.
Speaker 1:I think it's like Especially about my job, right, sometimes I got when they get in there's they're gonna think about not just all lady boy. They put gay in first. Okay, like the more person they're gonna that thing, like the more person who have like HIV or the unit is the gay, because the gay like a, really like to go to have fun like a gang bang. Oh, they, they're very, very crazy about sex. So the things the gay is number one. But for lady boys sometimes it's yeah, it can be also, but I think Maybe because of, like our lady boy and the gay, we love sex so much, you know very good in sex and also they just think like when they, when they have sex, maybe they're not protection, but For me I always use condoms and also the my friend and everyone who working in this Industry you know, working in the bar, in the massage shop or working on the street or can be the freelancer we know.
Speaker 1:So we need to protect ourselves very well. We go to check every month for the health care check and also say we take some pills like some prep. But, yeah, sometimes, even through we take all these things sometimes can happen, like some accident when you fucking drunks. You don't even know you wear the condom or not, because you work in the bar. You drink every day and sometimes it's our offer of control. So sometimes they bring like a, you work like this, you work as opposed to you.
Speaker 1:You works like you are lady boy, you are gay. You get so many many like you get like so many units about the sex unit. You have like HIV. You have this thing, this thing, this thing. They just always blame to us, but Sometimes we don't want to have it and sometimes they also have many ladies. You have this thing also. Many men as well, you know. But Because of we love sex and just like we, we find the Tinder, we find about the clean Glider, like we have so many. They think out and then we meet, meeting, meeting with many people so they think we are released about the HIV or some sex illness. But it's not true. Maybe can be some, some percentage, but not all.
Speaker 2:They come for men, they come from lady as well, you know and let's say you have a customer and he don't want to use condom. What you do?
Speaker 1:Oh, if they don't want to have condom, sometimes we don't do it. We we talk in first already, like we do for condom, and If you want to have no condom, we go to shake Together, like we go to shake on the farm on, like on the clinic or in the hospital before sex. And I used to. I used to have one one, one regular customer that I meet him and know him many time and and yeah, he very clean, he very like he's doctor, he work in the hospital and then, but even through he work in the hospital, he, he, he know how to protection as well. But sometimes he really want about a bad back. I mean, it's like a a broad job but without condom. You know, okay, you want to fit it, but he have, like are the things the name of?
Speaker 1:Or a kid? Yeah, all right, kid it's just like HIV tester. Okay you can put under your, under your, under your tongue, and then after 20 minutes they're gonna see, they're gonna show you have HIV or not.
Speaker 2:Okay, so it's another form of technology.
Speaker 1:Yeah, yeah, it's kind of expensive and but, but can buy I think about 900 or 700 but like that but can use only one time and then release. But I think it's. It's really good. It can shake, but for me for myself I go to shake every every month but as I told you About my job, it down About me and about the bugger and also the freelancer or the massage girl. Sometimes even we protect, but at some time the accident can happen. No one wants you have any illness, but sometimes it happened and you don't, you didn't know it's happened to you. Sometimes it's come from Keith, sometimes it's come from the condom, but it break. Maybe you are nails, is grass on the condom, you know. Or sometimes the condom just like, just um, just break. Or sometimes like, are you drunk and you? You don't remember you wear condom or not.
Speaker 2:Yes, I understand that, and and before you said something about something, name prep can you explain to me what is it?
Speaker 1:The prep is the medicine's like when you go to shake the blast in the hospital and if you don't have the HIV or something like that, you can get the prep. The play is the medicine that you take it every day in the same time. For example, at 8 am you take it, 1 pm, 1 pm. Every day. It's can protect you from their HIV.
Speaker 1:Okay so it's but they also have another things, another medicine. This are more concentrate than a prep. A prep it daily, eat right daily, take right one pill, one pill every day. But another thing is called pep, pep pep.
Speaker 1:Yeah, pep. Pep is a medicine that's like for for someone that you know. So I can. Maybe you realize that when you wake up all last night you didn't wear the condom. Or maybe you think all you have sex with this one, with this guy with no condom, maybe you bro job with no condom, or you feel like you are unsafe, or maybe, like you have sex with someone that you think he have some illness, some HIV or whatever.
Speaker 2:Okay.
Speaker 1:You can add this medicine from the doctor like you have very risky by last night or by today before, Like you have sex without condom. So the doctor will keep pep for you and it's yeah it's not over than 72 hours. If not over than 72 hour, this medicine can protect you from HIV, but if over than 72 hour, like you have sex without condoms, more Than 72 hour is gonna be very risky. So you need to shake the blast as well. Come to shake again and again.
Speaker 1:Understand but, yeah, you can take this pep for for when you are very risky, but but if you take clip already every day, I think it's I can protect you from HIV very well too. But the first thing, the most are safety thing, is the condom, and the second one is number is kind of like a number.
Speaker 2:Like a double protection. Yes, yeah, this medicine I take gold okay, and so you say most of the lady boys are using condoms and taking prep and stuff like that.
Speaker 1:Right, yeah, because if we have any illness, it's gonna ruin our job, you know, and and I'm very sad for everyone who gets some illness like this, because sometimes we don't know one one baby, how to say? Like Some are, sometimes you don't want to have a baby and if you have sex without condom you can get a baby as well. Some, some lady can be pregnant, yes, you know, of course, and some lady can get some illness and some thing like that. But to work, like us, nobody wants to have a baby by accident or nobody wants to have any illness, but sometimes it happens by accidentally and I'm really sad for them because when we got it, everyone will blame to us and you will lose the job as well. Yes, and everyone kind of gossip with you a lot, you know.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I know we have people can handle me and soon we have. We have some friends, but one of them are we. Of course I will not say their names, but one of them got Ajv last year and she's working in Pattaya. She got ajv last year. She's a lady and she says she always use condom and she's very safe and everything is okay. But she got it, you know, and first three months she wanted, she felt very bad, she wanted to kill herself, you know, and she thought her life is over.
Speaker 2:But now she's taking the medicine and everything okay, and a doctor tell her Now her body is in a good shape and she will. She's not. She cannot give this to anyone else anymore, you know Now she just have.
Speaker 1:I think, like now a day there, the medicine is very, very good. So if you got it, even through ajv, you can take the medicine, so you cannot release to the other people and your health is good as well. It doesn't mean like if you have the ajv you're gonna die same like 20 years before. No, I think now the medicine and about her health care system is so much better.
Speaker 2:Yeah, but even though she cannot give this to anyone she don't want to work this anymore because she's scared she can give to someone. You know.
Speaker 1:Yeah, shows, she just stopped work this and she find the regular job you know, and of course I think it's can be a very From everyone as well like, and nobody gonna know that she have it because like her, you know, even through she already get better and she take the medicine. But sometimes when some friend or some people knows about it, they, they do a big gossip, you know, and then if you cannot handle with that you can be the like a depression.
Speaker 1:It can be very sad. You can be like yeah, that's happened to her.
Speaker 2:She tell few friends. She tell maybe one or two friends, but this one or two friends not keep. And now everyone know she have this and she's I understand she's very angry with everyone Because this her secret, why they share with everyone. You know, and she's very shy, very bad. Yeah, she lose many friends because of this.
Speaker 1:I think the problem is about this as well. I guess sometimes some people have it and then they don't want to tell anyone so they keep it in secret, or maybe they don't know that they have it. Some people they don't want to go to check because they're scared that they're going to have it or not, because every time when we go to check back it's just like you got a big butterfly on your stomach, like, oh you're going to get something or not You're going to get something or not.
Speaker 1:And when you go to hospital and when you go to the department of first check about the blood, everyone just look at you like weirdo, like stranger, or some people like we look at you all you come to check the blood. Maybe you have it and some people don't like anyone to see them.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 1:I understand that.
Speaker 2:I hope that the medicine will be better and better in the years, so maybe soon HIV will be like flu. Nothing important, you just take one pill and it's gone. I hope this is the future because yeah.
Speaker 1:For me. I also think I want, I really want, because we cannot stay no like in our country or every country, have the bugger, have the massage girl or have the freelancer, or even have some people like normal couples or gay or lady boy or LGBTQ or just normal people like can have the unit from the sec as well. But I think nowadays we have the medicine that can treatment about the HIV or can protection about the HIV same prep, same prep. But why the pharmaceutical company don't do some medicine that can protect for all the sex illness? I think they are working on it.
Speaker 2:I think they are working on making something better.
Speaker 1:If someone can make it so people can take the pill and protect themselves from all the sex disease, I think they cannot do very good sale and will be very, very good for everyone because, as I say, it's like someone don't want to get any sex unit, but sometimes some people get the unit from the husband, from the wife, because sometimes when we are not with them 24 hours.
Speaker 1:Sometimes they make fun with some friend or they go to party or karaoke or some club, some bar. It can happen. The sex, everyone wants sex. But sometimes they have one nice, then it can happen as well. Sometimes you get this unit from your husband or you get it from your wife, but you don't even know. Sometimes it's just accident.
Speaker 2:I know I want to ask you something else. I remember one of the last episodes. You told me that you used to work in a only lady boy bar in Pattaya, I think. Can you tell me what is the experience working? Because normally when I go to Thailand I go to bar and it's a mixed bar. You know everything from everyone but I never seen a bar that is, and you said also, it's a closed door bar. So I think it's crazy, more than regular bars, right, and I want to know what is the experience.
Speaker 1:Yeah, sorry. Yeah, you can keep it.
Speaker 2:I just want to know what is the experience working? Is there any crazy stories or something like this?
Speaker 1:Yeah, I think the good thing about to work in the lady boy bar is you be yourself and then you do like more crazy than the other bar too, but no one see from outside, you know. So you can show you can make like in the middle of the night. The mama song will let everyone to wear the bikini Like a very sexy bikini. I don't think it's called bikini because it's very, very small. When they wear it's like a man can see my ball and also my cock as well. But yeah, that the real thing that's our mama song want to show. You know, because a man come here for lady boy, so you don't need to be shy.
Speaker 1:You should be yourself, and a man like to watch it. Just like, are you dancing with the lead and bikini and then he see your ball, he see your cock when you dancing and he get hard. You know Just making it exciting.
Speaker 1:And you can enjoy. Yeah, and in the middle of the night everyone need to wear like a small bikini or do some show. One show, one person, one show and the end we have like a big show as well and every man that come to the bar like it's a man who love lady boys. So we enjoy and we are ourselves. You know we are more comfortable and need to be shy to any other friends.
Speaker 2:Is this bar still open there? You know, if I don't know, if you're in touch with the people, is this bar still exist?
Speaker 1:It's already closed, but now I think they reopen. But I think it's new, new ornament. But I think they put lady and lady boy together, not same before.
Speaker 2:So it's not what it used to be. Yeah, yeah, okay, I understand that. So you say that for people that do like lady boys, it's a great. Bars like this that are only lady boy and closed doors is a good place to go.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I think it's very good for them also because, as I told you, most of the men who like lady boys sometimes he shy to walk with the lady boy on the street, you know. But if you go to this bar like, you can enjoy with the lady boy and nobody see you, we have the room upstairs if you want to have sex or, yeah, he can be himself father and we have the place for them as well, not just on the street or with like a ladybar, because, like many men, they shy, but when they are with ladyboy or in ladyboy bar they can do whatever they want.
Speaker 2:So not only you can be yourself, they can be themselves also the customers.
Speaker 1:Yeah, yeah, a man can enjoy and be themselves as well, so it's good for a man also and good for the ladyboy who work there as well.
Speaker 2:So why aren't there many bars like this?
Speaker 1:you think why there are not many bars like this, you think Because I never seen bars like this and you tell me it's already closed Because like 90% of a man come for the lady and only 80% or only 20% or 10% come for ladyboys. So that's why it's famous also. But some bar they need to put some lady in also because like some customer want lady also, not ladyboy, but sometimes very beautiful ladyboy can work in ladybar as well. Or sometimes like they open the have ladyboy and have lady to get, so the customer can come and then can take lady. Someone can take ladyboy, no problem.
Speaker 2:Yeah, but I mean that, like I know, at least in Pattaya, there are many what they call gentlemen club. You know the lounges, which is bar with closed doors, that it's everything is more crazy inside. Have many like this for lady, but I never seen like this for ladyboys. This way I ask, I think, every street have two, and they also have also. Yeah.
Speaker 1:Yeah, maybe it's just about like it's about the law as well. Sometimes the war is the law is really weird, like sometimes lady can show we have like a go-go, we have a go-go for lady, but when ladyboy do it they feel like it's too rude or too like you know too much.
Speaker 2:But not have go-go for ladyboys, for sure have.
Speaker 1:They also have, but, as you see, not much. Oh, okay, it's also about the law as well.
Speaker 2:Okay, so it's less common because people normally normally you say more people want to come for they, coming for the ladies, not the ladyboys.
Speaker 1:Yeah, yeah, most of them come for ladies and then only like maybe 20% come for ladyboy or maybe it's man just come, just want to try. Hmm okay, yeah, 80% up is come for ladies.
Speaker 2:Understand that and I want to know Do you have any crazy stories from the past week or past months about some customers Not have to say names, of course?
Speaker 1:Hmm, some crazy. No, this week no things.
Speaker 2:No nothing.
Speaker 1:Maybe they are one, but they come to ask me like to go fuck her, fuck his wife? I said no, I cannot.
Speaker 2:They just ask, but you cannot do.
Speaker 1:Yeah, he said he gonna give me like a money, like 3,000 baht, for fuck his wife. But I said no, I cannot fuck pussy, I think I'm not hurt and what you just want to watching, you know. I said no, no, no, no, no. When I see the pussy, I feel like you.
Speaker 2:You tell that before. But I want to know what is the most crazy thing not about this. You tell me before about 11 guys, what the most crazy thing you have with the customer before.
Speaker 1:Crazy things Hmm.
Speaker 2:Something that you say wow, this is like a.
Speaker 1:It's when I was in Pattaya I found some man like a young boy yeah, a young boy and then he look very like a nerd boy. He have like just like a boy to learning about science, okay, like with the eyeglass, like a doctor like that.
Speaker 1:Then I come to talk with him and he's so cute. He's really cute, really polite. But when I go to his room and when he opened his back, oh my god, he have like a many, many dread from me, like a nerd dread, tiger dread, like a seabird dread and make a made dread as well, and he have so many sex toy. I want to run away from this town and then I be I in that night. I feel like I'm a sex slave. He do so many crazy things to me and I think, like a in front, I'm in front, I'm shocked, but later I like it because he really handsome and also like you know how to do this. I'm so surprised like, oh, this young boy knows so many things about me being. He was sponsored. He was eight years old.
Speaker 2:You enjoy this experience. It was weird at start.
Speaker 1:Yeah, but I enjoy. But when I finish, oh, my god, I got like my aunt is so fucking great because he just left so hard with all the sex toy. It happened my aunt just very big hole. I think I after that I go to buy like some some things like we call in Thailand. We call it's just like you, your we use for the baby, for, not sheet on themselves on themselves.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I know it's for lighter so I think about.
Speaker 1:I need it because, like when they go to the toilet, I don't know when my shit gonna come out. You know, it's like because I cannot close my eyes. Oh, you have so many big doodle.
Speaker 2:I understand, but it's not usually happen. This just something crazy sometimes happen, right.
Speaker 1:Yeah, sometimes it happens. Sometimes you don't even know what kind of man you go with. Some men like really good insects, some men like food fetish, some men like kids, some men like a cross desert some men like superhero. Are you to fuck with Superman as well? And also Spider-Man.
Speaker 2:Someone with. Spider-man and Superman suit. I like it.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I dreamt about Tom Holland fucking me, or like Henry Cowell fucking me, so I come before they come.
Speaker 2:So that's good for you.
Speaker 1:So anyone that meet you, you have to bring good castles. Yeah, because I like superhero, especially my real superhero.
Speaker 2:Who's your favorite?
Speaker 1:I love Captain America, I like Thor, I like everyone, I think, but I prefer Thor my number one.
Speaker 2:Oh, you don't like the Hulk.
Speaker 1:No, it's too big for me. As I told you, I used to have sex with bodybuilding guys and I almost die, so I don't prefer the Hulk.
Speaker 2:I understand. So this is why you say Tom Holland, because he's skinny.
Speaker 1:Yeah, he's skinny, but he has big cock as well.
Speaker 2:I don't know. You can imagine.
Speaker 1:I need his spider. I think you have All over my face.
Speaker 2:I think you have problem with his wife. You know who is his wife.
Speaker 1:It's okay, I'm the best friend with her. I love Sandaya yeah you know, she's Sandaya is my favorite actor.
Speaker 2:She's good actor. She's on the Euphoria, you know, on the Euphoria movie.
Speaker 1:Yeah, and also she play on Utopia yeah this one I say she's very beautiful and she's very unique and she is a very fashion icon. I really like her Beautiful girls and also in the movie she's doing great.
Speaker 2:Yeah, and they are boyfriend and girlfriend, so I think you have to have problem with her.
Speaker 1:No problem, we'll be good friends. And then, when she sleeps, I can steal her Spider-Man card. I just need some web. You know some spider web.
Speaker 2:If, in the future, this podcast will be famous, I think you are going to have a big problem.
Speaker 1:I want him to listen, so he will know that I dream about him every day. You can send a link for him To release his spider web all over my face.
Speaker 2:I'm sure you get enough spider web over your face every day, so we need to finish this episode Again. We want you guys to like, subscribe and, most importantly, share with your friends our podcast. It's very important for us. Lada, you have anything to say?
Speaker 1:Yeah, thank you for watching, thank you for listening our podcast. I hope you guys enjoy with our podcast and if you have anything to ask or any idea, you can give us on the comment below so we can talk about whatever you're interested in or answer any question, and I hope to see you in the next episode.
Speaker 2:That's perfect, thank you. Thank you, guys. And, by the way, we didn't forget, we're still looking for names for our podcast, so it's still my Thai wife, but we are still thinking every day about a new name.
Speaker 1:Maybe a bad bitch with a big cock.
Speaker 2:Who's the bad bitch and who's the big cock Me. So I'm in the podcast. This podcast is just about you. You're kicking me out.
Speaker 1:Oh, maybe I'm the bad bitch, and then you can become a big cock.
Speaker 2:Okay.
Speaker 1:Big cock bitch yeah.
Speaker 2:We have to think about it a little bit more.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I can be big cock bitch.
Speaker 2:We have to think about it. I think that name will have problems in Spotify and YouTube to post. Anyway, thank you everyone for listening to us and we will see you next time. Bye, bye, bye, bye.
Speaker 1:Bye, bye.